Maybe she landed a long-time-coming promotion, bought her first home or graduated from a master's program. Whatever the reason, more and more women are celebrating their biggest special moments by adorning their right ring fingers — that is, not their wedding ring finger — with a little special sparkle.
That right-hand ring might look a lot like an engagement diamond. But don't misunderstand: This isn't an "alternative" to an engagement ring, nor is it meant to put down women who have chosen marriage. According to legend (and some news reports) over the years, women buy them for themselves as personal declarations of independence and a celebration of single life. The right-hand ring is simply just a celebration of you.
Also called rings, the ring — and its symbolism — dates back to the 1920s. It was started by the women who drank in the throes of (hence the name cocktail ring). For the first time in American history, women were finally free of cumbersome dresses and had entered the workforce and the speakeasies, where they smoked and drank alongside men — the right-hand ring, then, became a symbol of the working woman's .
This tradition was popularized by lauded actresses of the mid-century, like Elizabeth Taylor and Natalie Wood, and extended beyond the turn of the millennium. In 2003, , the the diamond company known for its "A Diamond is Forever" slogan, launched its "Raise Your Right Hand" campaign, encouraging women (both married and unmarried) to purchase expensive stones as a means to express themselves – not to announce an engagement.
It's not all about the sparkly new stuff, though. Vintage right-hand rings — those purchased by our mothers and grandmothers in the '40s, '50s and '60s — have become parts of legacies and lineages. Women gifted their rings to their daughters as they smashed their own milestones; the rings became a beacon of passing on the torch of female success. At HouseBeautiful.com, we know this to be true: So many of us own, wear and cherish our mothers' vintage bands, given to us on special occasions. I'm wearing two of my mother's right-hand rings right now!
If you are purchasing a new ring, there aren't any rules to the trend. Buy one ring or four, choose or your birth stone and, heck, wear it on any finger (nope, it doesn't have to be your right ring finger!). Go bold with a piece, minimal with a or classic with a . When in the market for a right-hand ring, you're in "treat yourself" territory.
While these rings have come to represent individuality and single womanhood, the ring's meaning may change depending on who purchases it. If a , it symbolizes a renewal of wedding vows or anniversaries. They may also serve as promise rings for dedicated partners or those taking a vow of chastity. Right-hand rings can also be gifted to mothers upon the birth of a child — for an older mom, a ring engraved with the names of her kids becomes a precious keepsake.
At the core, these rings serve as a reminder — to yourself and to the people around you — that you've done something impressive and that you are, by definition as a woman, impressive. Sounds like we should all have a few of these beauties in our collections.